Reddit dating after weight loss
Not in a "trust me, I'll be attractive one day" kind of way but in a "these are my projects for the future" kind of way, the same say you would tell something else about you that is important for you. So if you wait until you're "perfect," you could be waiting forever.
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Hold your head up and have confidence in yourself for taking the steps to change what you do not like. I've always blamed my weight for that, don't know if it's true.
Submit a new text post. Then again I've been in a relationship the whole dating after weight loss I've been 'thin' so maybe I just don't notice any attention I get now because of that. I haven't really discussed weigh loss super plainly with him, but he knows that I'm focused on working out and I pay attention to calories in things. I used to have no interest in doing anything outside I lost 20lbs and got in much better shape. I needed that time to just focus on me and work on developing better habits. It's basically just an issue with lifestyles, and being at different points in your life.
But I wouldn't want to sleep with me. I lost some weight recently, and have been getting more attention from men. I have standards when it comes to dating so it's only fair that I have similar standards for myself, otherwise I'm a hypocrite. I do well enough now for me to be happy.
I've been single for this long, what's a little bit longer? Dressing in nice clothes that compliment your shape can really, really help with this. No posting personal pictures. To further that goal, we have a few You're not going to want to date an un-fit person right now because the odds of their lifestyle fitting in with your weight-loss lifestyle isn't high.
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I will say though, when I do put myself out there, I look forward to dating a guy that agrees with my new, healthier lifestyle. No misogyny, misandry, transphobia, ageism, racism, general assholery, invalidation, or otherwise hateful or disrespectful commentary. This is the Strong Curves sub reddit. Now I can get about 2 first dates month when I'm actively looking. You must create an account or log in to vote on posts on Reddit.
This is an archived post. I am glad that I didn't start dating anyone at the beginning of my journey, though. I got very lucky and found someone who wanted to go on the journey with me.
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You'll find someone who will like you for you and that's the whole point. I think in the same way you do, that if I can fix my physical health then maybe this dating thing will be easier. I'm back on now but have been very nonchalant about it.